Based on the insights from professional dominatrix and fetish wrestler , as featured on platforms like Business Insider and Yahoo News , 1. Preparation and Consultation
Sexual Verbal Domination: How to Do It, According to Dominatrix
Determine which words or themes are exciting and which are strictly off-limits.
Use questions to make your partner acknowledge their position or feelings (e.g., "Do you like it when I...?" or "What are you going to do about it?").
Before engaging in any roleplay or "trash talk," it is crucial to "interview" your partner.
A powerful way to start without feeling overwhelmed is to simply describe what you see or what is happening in the moment.