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If it hurts, stop, add more lube, and wait a few minutes. If it continues to hurt, it’s perfectly okay to call it a day and try again another time. 7. The Afterglow first time anal mature
A helpful tip is to bear down slightly (like you're having a bowel movement) as the partner gently enters. This actually relaxes the sphincter muscle and makes entry much smoother. Trying something new at a mature stage in
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If you aren't ready for full intercourse, try a small, flared-base butt plug first. 6. Listen to Your Body
Start with massage, oral play, or light touch around the area during regular foreplay.