: Practicing what researchers often call "turning toward" a partner’s attempts at connection. This involves acknowledging emotional bids and responding with presence, which reinforces the bond of trust.
Conflict avoidance does not resolve issues; it merely forces them "underground" where they fester into resentment. Several mechanisms explain why this leads to cheating: : Practicing what researchers often call "turning toward"
: Unmet needs and unvoiced frustrations create internal pressure. An affair can serve as a "release valve" or an escape where the person feels they can finally be heard or valued without the fear of relational confrontation. : Practicing what researchers often call "turning toward"
By prioritizing authentic communication over the illusion of peace, couples can build a more resilient foundation that reduces the likelihood of secrecy and betrayal. : Practicing what researchers often call "turning toward"