Why You're: Not Married . . . Yet: The Straight ...

Focus on what you need (character, reliability, kindness) rather than what you think you should have.

Communicate directly. If you feel the need to retaliate for perceived slights, you are acting out of fear rather than love. Why You're Not Married . . . Yet: The Straight ...

McMillan’s "The person you really need to marry" provides the philosophical foundation for this guide—marrying yourself first. Focus on what you need (character, reliability, kindness)

Many approach dating by asking, "What can this person do for me?". Focus on what you need (character

Why You're Not Married . . . Yet for the full breakdown of these archetypes.