Cumming On A Little Strong «RECOMMENDED • TRICKS»

: Often, coming on strong isn't about the other person; it’s an internal response to Anxious Attachment. The urge to "lock things down" or seek constant reassurance can manifest as high-intensity texting or oversharing.

: Sending multiple paragraphs or "double-texting" before they’ve had a chance to reply to the first one. cumming on a little strong

: Before hitting send on an intense message, wait 20 minutes. Often, the "urge" to come on strong is a temporary spike of dopamine or anxiety that fades if given space. When "Strong" is Actually Right : Often, coming on strong isn't about the

: Remind yourself that you don't actually know this person yet. Focus on what they are showing you now , not what you hope they become. wait 20 minutes. Often